(This is a Spiritual 'explanation' synchronously written)
Reflective-Reference 'Presented' as a Response to the Title...:
"The worst 'date' ever, is the one that you make yourself go to because you're lonely.
I mean, what do 'you' really contribute -
or receive - for that matter -
if you lead with unnecessary-chatter?
Instead, if you graciously-watch,
and endeavor to engender 'reflective-attention,'
the evidence of the date's success,
will manifest as Truthful-Living of Beyond-Meaning,
Within the Experience of the Moment-Shared.
(Side-note: I'm not sure where that came from,
but I guess that the idea of 'loneliness' in regard to drawing,
and my affinity for the latter, must be expounded-upon...)
You see, it is a long-story... where do I begin?
I have always seen,
upon any monotone surface,
characters 'playing-out' 'reflections-intertwined' within my reality.
I can gaze through concrete, the sky, and even the 'nothingness' of air,
but in whatever case, how 'I-See,' is a Reflection of The Presence Through 'me.'
This has not always been realized consciously... and 'I' looked-away for decades because what I saw then,
reflected apprehensions of scary-limitations...
Now, I never-fear what I see, I only question with
"What is Happening?", literally.
I intuitively understand that ALL people are able to see the way I see.
Nevertheless, within-experience, 'limitation-perception' is the 'norm' -
(of which 'lonliness' is a manifestation)
so to find someone like 'me,' walking through 'your' reality,
may cause a pause in your 'self-evaluation' processes (Ha Ha).
I tell you literally, I see within any 'blank surface' -
of form or 'no-substance,'
my Soul's 'character's,'
who Present to Guide 'me' - consciously,
but are made 'Beyond-Me...',
well, that is 'strange-indeed.'
'my' Part, well, 'I' am here for the Spiritual-instruction,
that I have realized observation of the form and its function, provide for 'me.'
('I' am 'way-past' lonely, in fact, 'I' see that-that is no longer 'my-Reality,'
and 'I' only 'want' what is Meant for me, Spiritually.)
I know... I know... the writing-itself makes 'me' out to have 'multiple-voices,' which is necessary I suppose,
within the course of Spiritual-Reflection within writing,
but validation of the Truth of what 'Attunement' really IS,
well that IS-Found within the 'Entire-Beyond-Narrative' (The Presence),
Here is a Reflection Through The Presence About a 'Drawing's Attunement':
'I' am only here for a limited-time-offer (Living),
so time is spent Within-Meditation,
and then this altered-Reflective-State,
is duplicated by Synchronous-conscious-decision,
the Presence of my Highest-Comprehension.
Bottom-line: 'I' do nothing when sitting to draw,
but dissolve within His Love...
(the 'ego/JINN dissolves into Nothingness within the Drawing-effort,
and The Presence IS Known within the Consciousness-Fully, as Beyond-Bliss or Rapture).
What 'I' observe,
or Spiritually-Comprehend by 'The-Looking' (the Action),
IS Delivery of The Presence Within my-Perception,
which IS Intuition.
Now, I'm sure you may be 'thinking,' "Well, what is That?"
Intuition is The Answer-Realized Within the Experience,
of Reflectively-Positioning the Actual-Watching,
of the Focus (Spirit-Realized),
Through the Form ('you' consciousness- whatever that is to 'you'/and the physical body).
Overall, 'Drawing-Attunement', is The Experience of THE-FOLLOWING of The Presence.
This 'Following' IS The Experience of 'my-Own 'Conscious-Awareness,'
of HIS Unconditional-Love and Acceptance Within a Practice of Psychological-Nothingness,
Does That make sense?...
...Oh, and, this IS provable within 'your-Own' experience,
if you only sit quietly, and accept everything 'you-see' -
beyond thought and limitation-perception, THAT-IS.